Should I be upset with my boyfriend?

Should I be upset with my boyfriend because I just found a photo online him having his arm around another girl last year while being with me as he didn't tell me about it?

Reply 1

cherrycosmos

Original post by Wolf.lover123

Should I be upset with my boyfriend because I just found a photo online him having his arm around another girl last year while being with me as he didn't tell me about it?

What sort of arm was it? Were they extremely touchy in the photo or was it like an awkward friend hug? Did you know each other at the time? atm it seems like u shouldn't be upset tho

Reply 2

Mohammed_2000

Original post by Wolf.lover123

Should I be upset with my boyfriend because I just found a photo online him having his arm around another girl last year while being with me as he didn't tell me about it?

Was it sexually…were they posing or something

Reply 3

Wolf.lover123

Original post by cherrycosmos

What sort of arm was it? Were they extremely touchy in the photo or was it like an awkward friend hug? Did you know each other at the time? atm it seems like u shouldn't be upset tho

Arm around her neck and her head on his arm. I didn't see them take the photo but we was still dating at the time and we still are but when we first got together this girl kept telling him not to be with me

Reply 4

Wolf.lover123

Original post by Mohammed_2000

Was it sexually…were they posing or something

Na it wasn't sexually. Yeah just big smiles of them both

Reply 5

Zarek

What’s his explanation, doesn’t seem so serious on the face of it

Reply 6

Wolf.lover123

Original post by Zarek

What’s his explanation, doesn’t seem so serious on the face of it

I haven't spoken to him about it as he would say I'm crazy and everything

Reply 7

EmpyreanConflux

Probably begin with asking who she is before jumping to conclusions, it might just be an old friend

Reply 8

username6869372

Original post by Wolf.lover123

Should I be upset with my boyfriend because I just found a photo online him having his arm around another girl last year while being with me as he didn't tell me about it?

Could be a family member. Explore further. If not related then perhaps speak to him about how upsetting he had me you feel.

Reply 9

bee2018

Original post by Wolf.lover123

Should I be upset with my boyfriend because I just found a photo online him having his arm around another girl last year while being with me as he didn't tell me about it?

It's okay to feel the way you feel. I would talk to your boyfriend about how it has made you feel and have a mature conversation about it. Something to consider - are you generally uncomfortable about your partner having their arms around girls generally? If this is the case, you may need to communicate this very clearly with your boyfriend so that it doesn't happen again.