Suicide bombers are accorded the status of a matyr, of a
hero, thus encouraging teenagers to emulate their example. After a suicide bombing, guns are fired in Lebanese streets by civilans in celebration, and there have been reliable, third party reports of Palestinians flocking to the home of a suicide bomber to offer up their "congratulations."
With regard to the scenario you specified - it is
generally factually incorrect. Whilst the public are led to believe that suicide bombers come from the background you described, many tend to come from well-educated, middle-class homes where they have been brought up in a nest of seething hatred towards Israel and the Jews.
In fact, one mother knew of her son's selection for a suicide terrorist mission a month in advance. As he left to attack Israelis, she told him, "Take care my son, remember God, repeat the verses, pay attention to everything you see, concentrate on the task ahead, pick your moment. May God bless you with success and may you be granted the martyrdom you deserve." (
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/section/0,,176,00.html)
Bombers' families also receive approximately $15,000 from Iraq through Hamas, as well as food, blankets, and an all-expense-paid trip to Mecca for the annual pilgrimage.
A
Palestinian public health worker even admitted that results from a survey from Palestinian universities showed the students who committed terrorist attacks to be the "best and the brightest."
Quite a difference from the picture you painted Farhan.