would girls date someone who was successful but

Depends on the definition of success and a whole host of other personal qualities.

What like a rich tradie?

No thanks.

80% of them would date someone who is a rich dbag wearing a nice tailored suit and sitting in Microsoft office. Girls have extremely high egos that skyrocket and they would not settle for anyone below them or sometimes even slightly above them. They sometimes pretend they don't know what they want. Whilst there are some good girls out there, most of them will be taken and trying to find a decent girl that is not a ____ and actually likes you for your personality rather than for your ____ or your f__ w____ is difficult these days, especially if you live in heavily westernized countries. If you don't own a lamborghini or equivalent you might as well just not try, because you will get zero interest. No joke.

Depends on the definition of success and a whole host of other personal qualities.

80% of them would date someone who is a rich dbag wearing a nice tailored suit and sitting in Microsoft office. Girls have extremely high egos that skyrocket and they would not settle for anyone below them or sometimes even slightly above them. They sometimes pretend they don't know what they want. Whilst there are some good girls out there, most of them will be taken and trying to find a decent girl that is not a ____ and actually likes you for your personality rather than for your ____ or your f__ w____ is difficult these days, especially if you live in heavily westernized countries. If you don't own a lamborghini or equivalent you might as well just not try, because you will get zero interest. No joke.

Professionally successful, as in, owns a well regarded fast food establishment. Or several. The point is that they're not employed somewhere "fashionable" or high brow like medicine or banking.

People may not consider bin men to be employed somewhere 'fashionable' or to be 'professionally successful', but they have relationships. Are you intimating girls are snobs?

Anyway, as I said, attraction is based on more than job status.

No I do not imply girls are snobs.

And the standard you apply is a very loose one. Like maybe a bin man can find A woman but you know not all women are good and you won't know whether he is settling or not. I know many men who are and some have regretted it already. Quality men and quality women aren't just any man or any woman.

But the broader point is that being a bin man is, if we're honest, an unattractive job. It may be a very important, socially useful job, the man doing it may be decent and so on but if we're being honest.... almost all girls would prefer not to date someone like that. It's unfortunate but an understandable truth.

I went a little less hardcore than bin man, you chose one of the worst examples that is genuinely disheartening.

A lot of people, whatever their profession, may find a woman who isn't good and with whom they are settling. I know people like that.

Are you the manager of a fast food restaurant?

My point was that seeing a bin man with someone doesn't mean anything. He may be a really good man and she may be just someone he happened to settle with because he had no other options (being a bin man!). I of course am referring to quality girls and quality guys. Decent, kind, worthy of love really...

Anyone can be a quality person and worthy of love! Being a restaurant owner doesn't make you one when you are so dismissive of other people's relationships, which is exactly the point being made that it's not just about job status, but also personal qualities.

I of course am referring to quality girls and quality guys. Decent, kind, worthy of love really...